How To Say No In The Face Adversity

Give Yourself Power With No

Have you ever been in a situation where you're the victim? You're charge with something that can put your life in jeopardy. Many people can relate to having running with the police. For instance you made a wrong U-turn and low and behold you're charge with a ticket. Remember you're innocent until proven guilty.


A Case study

Diana was only twenty five years old when she had a run in with the cops. She was traveling late one night down a dark street when she realized she was lost. Diana made a U-turn and the cops were on her back. Two cops came over to her and told her that they were going to give her a ticket for making that illegal U-turn. The catch of not getting a ticket was for her to accompany them to this dark area and give each of them a kiss.


What Diana did save her life

She out-rightly refused their offer. She told them she preferred the ticket. These cops gave her a warning and left. She was surprised at their behavior and was a bit intimidated. She left that scene but something she will always remember.


Just say no .

Saying no sometimes is not a form of weakness but a form of power. Many times people are put into situation where they have to make quick decision. Make sure your decision is something you can live with. When you're traveling alone or with company try to always live up to your values.


Quick fix can lead you to your grave

Don't make decision that will live with you for the rest of your life. Don't fall prey for the easy way out. Stick to your guts and be tough. Just think of what the worst can happen to you. Remember there is always tomorrow. Don't ever think of the worst thing to happen to you. Always have hope even in the face of adversity. Don't give in to anything that is a quick fix.

In the case of the cops always carry your journal with you and document everything that happens. Anything inappropriate you can bring it up in court. Your journal is a powerful document you can use in court. Well that's all for now. I hope you find some value in this. Thanks for reading and pass this on to your friends. Thanks again!


Copyrighted 2009 by Annmarie Edwards